Monday, September 30, 2013

You're bigger than your skin suit, Part 2


The High Line in New York, between 1999-2006
(Image by Joel Sternfeld from High Line)

Rat Park was a study conducted in the late 70's and published in the early 80's, which provided evidence suggesting that the environment played a large part in drug addiction, not the drug itself. Funny how this has largely been ignored (why have an "end poverty now" campaign when a "war on drugs" sounds sexier?).

The popular concept of drug addiction is based on a disease model, which tells the story of how we get diseased (addicted): drugs are addictive, taking drugs leads to addictive behavior because of how they act on the brain, and this in turn creates addicts.

This is based on studies of isolated, caged lab rats getting hooked up intravenously to heroin they could control. If you were put in solitary confinement, what would you do to escape that kind of punishment? And is this a realistic model to use for how people get addicted to drugs (among other things)?

Path of the High Line, photograph taken between 1999-2006
(Image credit unknown, from Highline)

Psychologist Bruce K. Alexander didn't think so, and he decided to bring the environment into the equation. You can read the 41-page comic book, Rat Park, by the brilliant and meticulous (damn, did he ever do his research!) Stuart McMillen, to get the story.

In short, your context matters, because it shapes who you are. Your environment matters, because it influences your choices. Design matters (see? I told you I'd bring it back to design), because it creates possibilities.

The High Line in 2011
(Image by Iwan Baan, check out his photography)

What surrounds you can support you or suppress you. Cages take many forms. They can be as big as a city. They can be as invisible as a belief. They can also be transformed into a gorgeous park.


The High Line: from abandoned and neglected to connected and loved.
(Image by Christina Hicks)

Give a damn about the design of your room, your office, your neighborhood, your town, and your environment, and you will be rewarded. Ugliness disconnects us from ourselves and each other, and can lead us to withdraw and find ways to numb our pain. Beauty, on the other hand--beauty, and the urge to make beautiful, attracts support, resources, and gives birth to the reality of a better present with the probability of a wonderful future.

Invite Beauty,

I.



Thursday, September 26, 2013

You're bigger than your skin suit, Part 1

Cover of Rat Park, by Stuart McMillen

When I wrote in a previous post about orchid listening, my point wasn't that I took care of orchids better (there are far more talented and skilled people than me), my point was that I listened to orchids.

I paid attention to what the orchids I rescued liked and didn't like, and I took into consideration their native environment in order to duplicate closely that environment, so they could feel at "home" and thrive.

This is similar to how I practice psychotherapy. I try to get the context of an entire person, because I don't see problems as being purely embedded in people. Problems are more often in the environment around people, and can be experienced in the relationships people have to their environment.

By environment, I mean everything outside of our bodies--other people, food, medicine, air quality, politics, culture, history, etc. Check out the graphic below (or just glance at it if graphics make you go bleary eyed) based on the research and teachings of psychologist Urie Bronfenbrenner, founder of Ecological Systems Theory (forgive the flawed info on Wikipedia, but the links give the gist):


Bronfenbrenner's Ecological Systems Theory
(Image from Center for Information and Communication Sciences)

And is it just me, or did some old religions have this concept down already?

Props to the East! Find out more about this mandala.
(Image from Wikipedia)

North Rose Window, Notre Dame
Shout out to the West! North Rose Window of Notre Dame
(Image by Photo Tractatus on Flickr)

Yes, you're the center of the universe. I'm the center of the universe, too. It's a spiritual paradox, or a mystery. Don't worry too much about it.

All this talk about contextualizing people leads me to rats, which will lead me to design. Trust me.

Note: I'm posting Part 2 on Monday. If you miss me in the meantime, please consider following me on TumblrTwitter, Facebook, Pinterest, and Google+ where I post more frequently about the things that catch my art+design+psychology heart.

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Next up on Monday: You're bigger than your skin suit, Part 2. Taking the High Line to Rat Park!

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I.



Monday, September 23, 2013

Orchid listening


During my psychotherapy internships, I worked in a few offices where orchids were the de riguer gift for counselors and office workers.

They're generally inexpensive, pretty, and easily accessible (you can buy them at grocery stores and flea markets, not just nurseries or specialty growers). The blooms usually last a long time, too. So why wouldn't you give a gorgeous, living plant to someone instead of a bouquet that's going to wilt over a couple of weeks?

Well, because they die when they're not cared for in the fashion to which they're accustomed!

This is where I step in. I rescue orchids.

I can't save all of them. Sometimes they're too far gone--commonly due to excessive or inadequate watering--and when I finally get them, only the top is alive, or the last part to die, because the roots are rotted away or dried husks.

I also have limited space. (They're very popular gifts.)

However, the ones I can save, I save by listening. I observe and use my intuition as to their care, while following general guidelines for their species (they're tropical epiphytes). This attentiveness and adaptation to their needs brings them back from the brink.

Orchids thrive when they're given the right environment, and they reward your space with beauty. I love seeing orchids in rustic pots and planters (like the wooden milk bottle crate above), because the roughness contrasts with their elegance. Similarly, I enjoy seeing them in glazed pottery, because it enhances their exotic nature.

Plants are a wonderful design element, and they add much to our lives.

Wouldn't it be nice to add to their lives, too, by not treating them as disposable bouquets?

Invite Beauty,

I.


Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Design hero: Emily Henderson

Emily Henderson, star of Secrets from a Stylist and blogger at Style by Emily Henderson
She's kind of rockin' a Cameron Diaz look here, no?
(Photo by Angela Kohler)
Emily Henderson won Season 5 of HGTV Design Star. She was a professional photo stylist, which means it was her specialized job to arrange things artfully, like a 3D collage, for a photo shoot.

As I wrote in a previous post, to style something is to create an aesthetic experience--and in photo shoots, form is prioritized over function. You ever look through a catalog and think, "It's going to take hours to remove all the pillows from that freaking bed before anyone is going to sleep"?

Really?
(I can't find the credit for the image, but it's from a post on Smirk.)
That's because the image is styled. It's not meant to be functional, it's meant to be artistic and fire up your imagination, or be "aspirational," according to Emily. This means that the final picture should make you want what it's selling to you: a lifestyle, a moment, an experience, things, etc.

The part I like about how Emily styles on her show, Secrets from a Stylist, is that she makes it functional. She interviews people (her "style diagnostic") to figure out their styles based on the objects, colors, textures, and time periods to which they're drawn. She then decorates and designs accordingly.

Check out the "before" pic of the living room of Glee's co-creator, Ian Brennan, from Emily's first episode:

Nice...airy...but kinda bland, right?
(Image from Take Sunset)
The room feels forlornly empty and devoid of Ian's personality; sure, you know where to sit, but you don't care. It's like having tubes of paint sitting on a canvas. There's even a fireplace (you can't see it, on the right) that's being ignored!

Below, check out the space after Emily has her way with it. It's shot from a different angle to highlight the inclusion of the fireplace as a focal point.

Yeah, baby.
(Image from Take Sunset)

Notice that the sofa is facing the fireplace, because fireplaces were the first TVs! I could stare at a fire for ages, as if I were watching a Firefly marathon. Not only that, but she's placed a big ol' painting of President William Harrison to make sure you know: look here, this fireplace is for you, so enjoy.

And did you realize how awesome that window surrounded by the built-in bookcase was? Look at those panes! I love how Emily reveals the architectural details and features of the room by simplifying (she removed the curtains).

The bookcase itself is highlighted by carefully chosen art objects and books. Nothing is cluttered and there's a lot of space for the things to breathe, and be contemplated, on the shelves.

I also enjoy the way Emily combines the different things that appeal to Ian, and makes everything a unified whole. There are organic, cross-cultural elements, such as the wooden side table from Morocco, and inorganic objects like the metal trunk coffee table. The contrasts highlight the differences purposefully, and make the room harmonious versus clashing. It's a good example of oppositional design theory.

She does love her blue outfits, but you know what? It's one of her best colors! Ian himself is highlighted by the design of his living room. 
(Image from Take Sunset)

Here's Ian and Emily. Check out how he literally fits his space now--the room is an extension of how he looks and dresses, which is to say, how he expresses himself stylistically. He belongs here.

Rather than styling to sell, Emily styles to help her guests on the show connect with their space--and themselves. Her guests see their self-expression (style) expressed throughout their environment in a cohesive and beautiful way, and learn what it's like to be comfortable in their own skin (or abode). As Emily would probably describe it, it's like dressing your home like you would dress yourself.

This is about helping people to reestablish control of their environment, and to create congruency between their internal and external worlds. By emphasizing people's positive choices and strengths in their surroundings, they can feel like they belong in those surroundings.

Joke as anyone might about "control issues," but we all want some control, especially over our own environment. Think about that the next time you open a window for a breeze, straighten your desk, or miss your hamper trying to swish your socks in (and leave them wherever they fall)--and how someone else living or visiting with you might want to do something different.

The 14th reincarnation of the Dalai Lama was discovered when he chose objects placed before him that belonged to the 13th Dalai Lama. What we choose says something of our psyche, no?
(Image from the movie Kundun)

It seems that a lot of life is about learning to accept ourselves, what we love, and the way we want to be in the world; sometimes that requires help from empathetic people to reflect back to us how truly wonderful and beautiful we are--and can be, when the path is cleared.

Thanks to Emily Henderson for being a guide on this path, and for sharing her secrets!

Invite Beauty,

I.

Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Thereabouts: My Sunday surprise! Part 3


Man Cave
(From one of Jennifer Bertrand's Pinterest boards)

Jennifer Bertrand (Season 3 winner of HGTV Design Star) describes her project above as a "man cave," and says that what makes a man or woman cave is a room that makes you happy because everything you love is in it.

Me, I can't stop staring at those lovely bulbs! I find this color scheme both soothing and masculine.

Jennifer's set design for KC (Kansas City) Live

I love set decoration. I really, really love set decoration. And set design. So I'm loving what Jennifer did for the tv show, KC Live. It looks welcoming, and combines yin (feminine) and yang (masculine) aspects for a balanced feel that's comfortable.

A dreamy screened-in porch

I love a designer who thinks outside of the box (or white room). Notice the cabinet on the left? It's attached to the wall and actually floats above the bar, and the legs create a boundary for that space. The bar itself sits on shelving that's supported in part by two stacks of books.

And can we say SOFA SWING? It echoes the floating quality of the cabinet, and is nicely decadent inside a room rather than outside on a porch (although it still reminds us that it's a screened-in porch). 

I bet if we could stand farther back, the lack of legs on the sofa gives the room an airy feel, which is amplified by the walls of windows. 

Jennifer's dining room

I wonder if this has changed since she took the picture. Designers' homes are oftentimes the labs for their experiments, and nothing stays the same for long.

And there's that signature painting she does! It's not only bold and dramatic, what thrills me is how the petals bend onto the adjoining wall to the right. This is a designer who uses her creativity to break through limitations that would normally stop others. She also cites Craig's List as a hot go-to for affordable decor and furnishings (I second that). 

Figures she's also an artist, right?

I'm so happy Jennifer decided to follow me on Twitter, because it gave me a chance to find out more about her and become inspired by her triumphs, struggles, and imagination. 



Here's to design improving lives, supporting us through difficult times, and for me, most importantly--connecting us to each other.

Next: Design hero, Emily Henderson.


I.


Monday, September 16, 2013

Thereabouts: My Sunday surprise! Part 2


Jennifer Bertrand's completed White Room Challenge.
(image from roomfu.com)
The Season 3 contestants of HGTV Design Star lucked out in their White Room Challenge and could shop at Michael's (an arts and crafts supply store) with $500. The theme was to design based on a country, and Jennifer got assigned "Italy."

Holy wow, right?! She painted those designs freehand. Sorry it's a little blurry, but I wanted to blow up the pic so you could see it better. Okay, that sounded like a good idea while it was still in my head.

Cut to the chase, she won Season 3 of HGTV Design Star! Soon after winning, she and her husband became parents to Winston, a boy with special needs stemming from two rare medical conditions known as lymphatic malformation and venous malformation, and his care took precedence over her show, Paint Over.


Isn't Winston adorable?! 
That trach helps Winston to breathe, and according to Jennifer, the malformations make fluids gather in his neck, giving him a "Jay Leno" chin at times. She cracks me up!

Jennifer and her husband, Chris, were both teachers before embarking on their careers as interior designers (with no formal training, which delights this self-taught artist to no end). They had both auditioned for HGTV Design Star, with Jennifer getting the chance to compete on the show.

I think this was a Thanksgiving pic.
Yes, it's another photograph that's blurry because I enlarged it--but it's completely justifiable because I have a weakness for candid family shots where everybody isn't smiling. A crying baby is classic!

I love Jennifer's energy, honesty, friendliness, optimism, generosity, and humor. There's been a lot written and said already about her family's experience on the interwebs, so I'm going to focus on Jennifer's design work.

Next up: What'd I just tell you? It's going to be about Jennifer Bertrand's design work!

Invite Beauty,

I.

Friday, September 13, 2013

Thereabouts: My Sunday surprise! Part 1

Season 3 HGTV Design Star Winner, Jennifer Bertrand

Bear with me as I overhaul, like, everything on this blog. Notice the snazzy new blog banner? I like it. I hope you do, too. I'm surprised at how much coding I can figure out when I set my mind to it, and how much HTML and Photoshop skills I can recall.

Thanks to She Sews Seashells for the feedback and encouragement while I redesigned this blog.

The news I'm finally getting around to sharing with you (besides creating my Pinterest boards--please go look, re-pin, and follow at your leisure!), is that I had a nice surprise this past Sunday when I found out Jennifer Bertrand was following me on Twitter.

Who's Jennifer Bertrand? She came to my attention in Season 3 of HGTV Design Star, when she knocked my socks off in the "white room challenge."

It's white. It's a room. It's a challenge. IT'S THE WHITE ROOM CHALLENGE.
(image from roomfu.com)

In this challenge, you get a white room filled with white (IKEA, it looks like) furniture--which isn't always the same furniture across seasons. Your task is to decorate and design the room using a themed set of supplies (like, "only things found in a pet store"), which have to be purchased in an hour with a limited budget.

Next: The White Room Jennifer Bertrand designed!

Invite Beauty,

I.

Sunday, September 08, 2013

And the point is...


A moment from Food Network Starrecapped by Justin Warner here.
(I haven't seen this show or read the article.)
Listening to the judges critique the contestants reminded me of art class. Part of how we learn in an art class is by listening to what the teacher says to other students!

Eavesdropping is a class requirement. And it's easier to hear what someone else did that could use improvement rather than hearing it about ourselves or our own work.

However, if we can get past our egos (and shame) about receiving feedback, our lives and our art--in whatever form--will improve by leaps and bounds. That's my takeaway.

Next up or thereabouts: Design Star season 5 winner, Emily Henderson!

Invite Beauty,

I.

Saturday, September 07, 2013

How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Fast Forward through a Reality Show


Image from Candice (the blonde pointy one) Olson's blog post.
Continuing from yesterday's post, my point is that "reality shows" follow a formula.

So, I forwarded each episode to the middle and I got to skip, well, the purpose of the show, which is to depict normal people under extreme physical, emotional, and overall psychological stress, and went straight to the judging, where I could see the finished design and also hear the judges' feedback.

Even though the judges were critiquing designs and design processes that would never happen in a real design job, and what we see on television is greatly abbreviated (a friend of a friend was on Chopped and revealed that the judges actually spent an entire hour giving feedback about each dish, so I imagine it's probably similar on other shows), it's still helpful.

Image from roomfu.com
I love it when they disagree with each other! Just as I disagree with whoever set up those chairs for season 5. When the judges confer, they huddle, and it looks undignified because they just lean over and it looks like giraffes at a watering hole rather than awesome designers conferring. Not so elegant.

Image by world-renowned photographer Frans Lanting
Next: There's a takeaway from all of this.

Invite Beauty,

I.

Friday, September 06, 2013

Realism is not reality



In between work and studying for my psychotherapy license, I've been plunging into all things (interior) design. I decided to subject myself to HGTV Design Star, which has now been re-branded as HGTV Star.



It's a "reality show" where people compete to win their own HGTV show.

For the first few seasons, I watched every episode from start to finish. As is my usual experience when watching anything that happens inside a space, I want people to get out of my way so I can check out the interior design!

Could you move over a little?
I don't care for drama, and the idea of putting people through an artificial emotional wringer to squeeze out extreme emotional reactions for my viewing pleasure is unpleasant and, to borrow from Neil Simon's Biloxi Blues, "inventing a crime that didn't exist to enforce your theories of discipline is Neanderthal in its conception." Yeah, that about sums it up.

Anyway, the great thing about "reality TV" (and it does deserve the quotation marks) is that it's not reality! See, in reality, lives don't follow a plot! Realism is a genre. Okay, if I keep typing exclamation points, I'm going to accuse myself of dramz.

Thanks!
Next up: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Fast Forward through a Reality Show.

Note: The screencaps are from Prince of Tides, credit for set decoration goes to Caryl HellerArthur Howe, Jr, and Leslie A. Pope. It'd be a bad pun to say I'm giving them props, but set decorators are really unsung heroes on the set and they deserve to be acknowledged for their talent and work.

Another note: Gratitude also to iamnotastalker.com for posting about the Prince of Tides set, which is personally significant to me (more later).

Invite Beauty,

I.

Thursday, September 05, 2013

Little changes lead to big changes, Part 3



Has anybody ever done this before? Blabbed on for so long he needed to re-post the image he was talking about a bajillion paragraphs ago? Okay, getting back to the point--see that desk chair? It was sitting at the foot of the bed, against the wall. I thought it was kind of ugly--like, it could have been pretty but then it took a hard turn and the design just went to one of the Oriental furniture hells. 

Anyway, I took out the previous large, leather executive office chair with a very high back that blocked the window (and emotionally felt like the first sore-thumb thing you saw when you entered the room), and put this chair there. Ba-bam! It's now pretty! Talk about the importance of context.

In this position, the chair's back is center stage and brings attention to the (modern and East Asian) lines in the room: on the windows, in the shelving unit (also on wheels) underneath the desk, and the Expedit shelving unit behind it (picture coming up). 

I couldn't remove or change the desk, which felt too big for the space, but the dimensions of the chair (low and wide compared to the executive chair), seemed to adjust the sense of proportion and helped the desk "fit" into the rest of the design.

The dark wood of the chair also softens and warms up the modern coolness of the metal and frosted glass of the desk, making the desk blend with the bedding and photograph. Even the chair pad looks complementary, as it matches the color palette and linearity that's been highlighted with the chair placement. And isn't it nice that you can see through the back of the chair, adding to the spaciousness of the room?

And now for some styling (i.e., decorating for aesthetics rather than for utility):


Knowing my mother, she probably found the lamp at Target or somewhere and got a great deal. I love lamps, and I love this one! But if I tell her she'll try to give it to me, so shhh. The little Japanese dolls might have been gifts or something she picked up on her travels.


Are you digging the reflections on the frosted glass desktop? Okay, good, because I meant to capture them in the frame. I adore these glass persimmons with the little bits of gold inside them. The burst of color in the gray palette makes them like the beloved cherry blossoms that bloom in the dead of winter--a delightful surprise.


Plants are awesome. Indoor plants help to filter the air of toxins and even if they didn't, they're darn pretty. This is a begonia in a lovely planter, which is on a small tray (in case of overflow when watering). My mom actually went outside and pruned the tree outside the window to let in more light for the begonia and also to increase the airiness of the room. 

And here's the ubiquitous Expedit shelving unit you can find in a lot of homes and design blogs. I'll show a close up in just a minute:


We added the calligraphy scroll above (yes, it's convenient to have a mother who practices calligraphy, and it's also very convenient to have a mother who has a calligraphy teacher who gives gifts of his calligraphy). The scroll was rolled up and stored in another room, but we thought it'd be perfect to complement the shelving unit and anchor the other side of the room. My mom decided to leave the wall above the bed (lengthwise) blank, so it wouldn't be cluttered. She hates clutter.

The little ornate stool to the right of the shelves was a gift from one of her friends. At first I didn't like it and didn't think it fit in the room, but after placing it there, I think it works fine. My mom styled it by putting old Chinese books on it and makes it look beautiful and fun. 


In the first shelving unit I added wheels to, I didn't want the wheels to be seen so that the unit could "float" a little. Well, that made the unit wobbly when you moved it around (especially on carpet). I compromised and put the wheels farther out on this unit, which is why you can see them underneath. The wheels specifically sold for Expedit shelves have huge brackets and were too industrial for what my mother wanted. 

Once the wheels were on (which required removing all the stuff she had in the shelves first), I styled the unit by putting books she wanted to keep and some art objects back in, and used some of the book covers to reduce visual clutter and add punches of color to the space; this is a trick I learned from working in a bookstore years ago. You can also lean framed photos or artwork against books, too.

We did such a good job of de-cluttering that we ended up with one empty cubicle! That's for my mom to fill in later. The top of the unit was originally loaded with stuff (including that big rock in the top left cubicle), but I cleared everything off and just kept the white fountain to help keep the design clean--there's nothing like losing the impact of beautiful things through crowding. One of the secrets to good design (and most artforms) is editing. 

My mother added a small, slatted bamboo scroll in front of the fountain (I think it might have part of a sutra on it), which you can see in the wide shot including the calligraphy above. I had strongly suggested that she not over-decorate or clog up the top of the shelves, but I thought this addition didn't detract from the simple beauty of the fountain or the modern/minimalist/Asian aesthetic of the room's overall design, and which I knew she enjoyed.

And there you have it. From putting on some little wheels to redesigning and redecorating an entire room to make it feel cohesive, welcoming, and calming. 

Hm. This post was actually fun. Whaddya know!


I.


Little changes lead to big changes, Part 2


The finished room

What started the redesign of this room was putting wheels on my mother's two Expedit shelving units from IKEA. I had read an interview with a retired and prominent interior designer (can't remember her name or where I read the interview) who was like, "Darling, if I had it to do over again, I would put wheels on everything!" 

That really stuck with me, and I've got to say:

I LOVE WHEELS!

Wheels. Best invention since...well, since ever. It makes playing with room design so much easier, because you know--if I have a painting near me I haven't sold yet, I generally will go about painting and repainting it. Same applies to interior design. I'll keep changing it up to improve, amuse, or soothe myself. 

Right, so I was saying: I put the little wheels on (you'll see) and my mom (who is where I get my interior design genes from [thanks, Mama!]) speaks the magic words: "Let's redecorate."

Now, along with those magic words come the magic warnings, like, "Get back before midnight or your carriage will turn back into a pumpkin," but in this case, it's "I don't want to buy anything new, and I want to keep that chair pad underneath the desk, and all the furniture in the room if possible."

There's a reason I don't share my pics of the designs I've done for people, and that's because of these parameters. I'd have that chair pad out in a second, and I don't want it to represent my work because I didn't choose to have it there. Yet, what I've learned in psychotherapy and doing more and more interior design is that the work is always collaborative, and the star of the show is always the client.

(Even when a magazine is spotlighting a designer, the magazine and its readership is the client, and the design is styled to make a good photograph--which is different from a room that's lived in and used.)

Jeez, remember the first picture? Sorry for all the annoying words. Here's a close up:


I wasn't going to paint the walls (my mom likes white walls and I do, too), but above the head of the bed was this Original Finger Painting of mine that's in her collection:

A Garden Elsewhere, oil and acrylic on canvas, 20" x 16", COLLECTED
It didn't fit. It felt too small and the color palette didn't match the neutral grays my mother wanted for this room. So I took it down and used a black and white photo triptych of birds and flowers, which I found on top of the shelving unit in this room and leaning against the wall. It's narrower than the painting, but because of its length, it complemented the width of the bed better. 

The subjects and style of the photographs also appeared peaceful and dreamy. I like how it emphasizes the bed as a place of rest and recuperation.

PSA: For those who don't live in California, and especially for those who do, we live in earthquake country, for goodness' sake! I pulled the bed out far enough that if that framed photograph were ever to fall off during a shake, it would just land behind the bed instead of on top of someone's sleeping head. What's more, I used an appropriate and sturdy picture hanger I bought at the hardware store. Don't think a thumbtack or a nail is going to do it when the EARTH is QUAKING

Next, I made the bed (it's an old twin I can't wait to replace, but remember, no new furniture allowed, and all old furniture kept if not edited out). The comforter was loose (untucked) and hung over the sides of the bed, hiding the interesting lines in the frame's design. It made the room feel smaller by literally taking up more space, so I tucked the comforter in and the bedding now has this nice, Japanese feel to it, all snug. The pillows were arranged simply from big to small. I usually like to choose my accessories and don't like matching sets, but this worked for me and it's what I had to work with.

Note: I hate decorative pillows. I think pillows should be useful and beautiful. I have pretty pillows on my bed and I will sit back on them (gasp) and actually use them. I love hanging out on my bed and if I couldn't muss up my pillows I'd be pretty annoyed. 

Side note: I don't get it when people say, "decorating is about adornment, and design is about considering how people will utilize a space." What? I have never, ever decorated a space without considering its use and the users of the space. Design is integral to good decoration. Duh.

Okay, coming up next, I discuss the desk and chair.

Oh, and remember what I suggested about supporting my art. Thanks in advance.


I.

Little changes lead to big changes, Part 1


I hate to use this space as my public private confessional, but I'm going to do it anyway.

I hate blogging. 

Seriously. 

I enjoy writing as much as writing can be enjoyable (it's more of a release for me at this point, to scribble in my journal irregularly), but blogging is a different monster altogether. It's kind of like this public diary crossed with journalism, and a little obsession (or a lot) thrown in. 

So, I don't read blogs. Well, let me take that back: if it's got pretty pictures, then I will. (Yes, I know, ironic, right? No pretty pictures on my blog for so long you'd think it's about an artist in solitary confinement and a straitjacket because if he had access to his fingers he'd at least bite them and draw with his blood like any normal, passionate artist would do, because he's just gotta paint! But no, he's probably just being recorded and transcribed as he rants about what he'd like to do--if only...) 

This is why I like Pinterest and Tumblr. Pinterest more, sheesh--I can spend hours on there. And ask me how surprised I was to find some of my artwork pinned on some Pinterest boards! Neat.

Anyway, I was going through the blogs I followed and you know what? Like 90% of them are defunct. People just sort of stopped. 

My first thought was: WHEW. It's not just me. 

Blogging is kinda like work sometimes. Which makes it not play.

However, I'm not ready to abandon this whole blogging thing. I like popping in here and sharing stuff, and I like it when other people share stuff with me (okay, with the rest of the world on Facebook, but wev). Perhaps one day I'll get a load of comments, not to prove the popularity of my blog, but just so I know that what I'm writing about means something to someone. Stirs up enough emotion that people bother to go through the trouble of commenting. Who knows. 

Okay, onto some pictures in the next post. These are going to be about interior design and decoration. These are pictures from a guest bedroom in my mother's home that is also periodically rented to college students and commuters. Yes, I should have taken "before" pics and "after" pics and shared the design process visually.

But you know what? I wasn't planning to share this, and as fun as before-and-after shots can be, I sometimes don't mind seeing just the finished product. Go through most design mags, and it's more like ta-da! Rather than "Ew! And then we did this, and then we did that, and voila!" 

What you're going to get are my explanations about what I did and why. Not as good as before-and-after photos, but I know for next time, alright?

Now please go buy some of my art. It encourages me.



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